Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck recently ended their relationship after reuniting in 2021 and getting married in 2022. Their separation has sparked interest in the complexities of rekindling past relationships. The couple first started dating in 2002 and even got engaged before calling it off in 2004. After spending years apart, they rekindled their romance in 2021 and tied the knot in 2022, but sadly filed for divorce in August 2024. If you're considering getting back together with an ex, drawn to the familiarity, shared memories, and unresolved emotions, here are some important considerations to keep in mind before diving back in:

1. What were the reasons for the initial breakup? It's crucial to understand why you separated in the first place, as unresolved issues are likely to resurface in the renewed relationship. Address these issues openly and make sure they are properly resolved.

2. Have either of you changed since the breakup? People grow and evolve over time. Evaluate whether both of you have developed in ways that could positively impact your relationship. Are you better equipped to handle challenges and communicate effectively now?

3. What significant life changes have occurred? Life events can have a profound impact on relationships. Consider if there have been any major changes such as career advancements, new family members, or relocations that could affect your compatibility and priorities.

4. Consider the perspectives of your friends and family. Your loved ones have valuable insights into your relationship. Seek their input and take their opinions into account, as they may offer perspectives or raise concerns that you haven't fully considered.

5. Are both of you ready to fully commit? Rekindling a relationship with an ex requires a strong commitment from both parties. Ensure that you and your partner are aligned in your commitment and willing to invest the time, energy, and effort needed to build a healthy and enduring relationship. Each person's level of effort and dedication is crucial in making the relationship work.Overcoming past hurt and betrayal can be challenging, but it is important to be open to forgiveness and moving forward. At the same time, it is crucial to establish healthy boundaries and ensure that your partner respects your needs, according to insights from Radhika Mohta, a relationship coach and matchmaker.

Be cautious of warning signs in a relationship, such as gaslighting, controlling behavior, abuse (physical or emotional), avoidance, blame-shifting, lack of independence, overreliance, constant arguments, lies, and deceit.

Noteworthy examples of celebrity couples who reignited their romance include Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel, who reconciled in 2011 and wed in 2012 after a split in 2007. Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth also had an on-again, off-again relationship before marrying in 2018 and later parting ways in 2019.

Shawn Mendes and Camila Cabello briefly got back together after their initial breakup in November 2021, seen at Coachella in April 2023, but ultimately separated again in June 2023. The pair was also spotted at a Copa America match in 2024, though neither has confirmed whether they have reunited, leaving fans speculating about their relationship status.